I ran both slotted and drilled on my n/a 944 and the slotted were much better as the drilled cracked a lot. Couldn't tell a difference in actual stopping ability and my turbo only has flat disks which also seem to work fine and never crack for my usage.
To a large degree, stopping wears material so your pads can be hard and wear the rotors or soft and wear themselves out. For optimal braking, new pads and new rotors are best, so even wear between the two may be the goal.
Another interesting point, some tuner TV show was tricking out some car and did a lot of dyno runs. After getting a base line, they installed some nice big rotors to replace the wimpy factory brakes. The upgrade actually cost them 10 hp due to all the rotating mass
Can you really make up for the added unspring weight with better braking????
If your brakes are getting hot, that can also reduce life, so maybe more cooling would be a possible answer, though it tends to increase drag.
So most everything is a tradeoff. Bigger is not always better. If you are happy with the way the car stops, be careful doing too much to keep from having to replace rotors as often.