I believe Kim question is very valid, though I can not give a definite answer as there are several parts of the drive train all doing their own thing. As I understand it, the synchros adjust the speed of the transmission. Thus, when they wear you get the grinding when trying to move the gear shift into gear on downshifts (while clutch is disengaged). This can be overcome by the old double clutching technique which is matching engine revs WHILE the clutch is engaged. Otherwise, rev matching just makes the shift smooth, but doesn't help synchros. My dad was from the old school and taught me to drive double clutching every downshift, but with modern synchros, most people feel this is unnecessary as rev matching is adequate.
Thus, with the rowing method, the synchros need to speed up the tranny by about 2K rpms for each gear versus skipping gears making the synchros speed up the tranny 5k rpms and unfortunately, 2nd is almost always the weakest (or most used) synchro. Thus, from my understanding, rowing is better for the synchros and Kims question deserves a real answer from an expert.